When we split she didn’t have the credentials to make a living wage. But my ex is only in this position because she had to drop out to take care of our baby. She claims my ex needs to, “fend for herself”. With extra to pay her monthly expenses til she gets back on her feet. And gave her e money to catch up on bills. And I paid that expense, along with buying her a new car. She had a hospital bill which totaled 77k. And almost immediately after My ex and her car were involved in an accident. So I asked my wife, thinking she’d say okay. She fell way behind on bills and reached out to me as a last resort. I have a lot of disposable income (likely more than people reading this would be willing to believe). The thing is, she doesn’t make enough to really do much of anything. Since unlike with me, she didn’t get hardly any spousal support from her last husband. Due to the fact that she was in her mid 30s with no education or job experience. She no longer receives alimony from me since she remarried, automatically stopping the payments which were originally lifetime. She works at a diner as a waitress currently. My ex wife was a SAHM during our 16 year marriage. “AITA: bought my ex wife a new car, and helped her with some bills. And you’re lying to yourself if you’re thinking otherwise. Because if she’s whispering sweet nothings in your ear now that she’s struggling, it’s because she wants the good life again, not you. You need to get your butt into therapy and figure out how to get over the ex. How did you feel when you found out your worthless ex was cheating? Did you feel like you weren’t good enough? Like you had the whole world stolen? Did you spend nights awake wondering what you did? Feeling like your soul had been ripped out? Did you spend years after that feeling insecure and untrusting? Worrying that you could never find happiness again because you couldn’t trust anyone? That’s what you’re putting your current wife through. She could have found and by with someone who really did love her this whole time but instead she’s wasted it on you. How many days, months, years of her life have you stolen with your lies? She has spent this whole time thinking she has a husband who loves her and it’s all been bullshit. How long will it be before you cheat on her with the ex? If you haven’t already, that is. How long have you been using her because you don’t want to be alone? How long have you been married to her, lying to her every day telling her you love her when you don’t? Your current wife deserves so much better than you.
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